I think that one of the roles of (a certain type of) friends is to extend your mind (in Engelbart's sense, i.e. roughly the same sense that a computer does). For example: argumentative interactions, in which mental labor is naturally and profitably divided between the For and Against side, or Creative and Skeptic.1
Why does cultural background matter? Because a set of basic concepts and dogmas is required for two people to understand each other's ideas. My dogmas are rather positivistic, and include: "mathematics never lies", "there is no problem that humans can solve and computers inherently can't", "informal reasoning can always be formalized (digitized+parsed) losslessly, with the right knowledge representations". Scientists, and AI folks in particular, will usually share these.
I'm just beginning to talk to biologists, and it is... effortful. Although books like William Cohen's "A Computer Scientist's Guide to Cell Biology" help bridge this gap.
Knowledge of popular culture seems to be very important among geeks in North America. I haven't seen people enthusiastically spout movie quotes anywhere else. Europeans, for example, have to deal with a Tower of Babel among themselves, and generally don't seem to expect anyone to have read the same books. It's just not a thing they do there.
Another lazy man's view of like-minded intellectual friends is that they infect you with their best memes, already filtered and interpreted and critiqued into your conceptual system, so you don't have to. Also, they probably have (or have had) some of the same questions as you, and made some progress (or solved them), so you can share notes.
1 - if you're sufficiently detached and flexible of mind, you can always have the argument with yourself, by switching sides, but this comes with a certain overhead. As an example of this, Paul Graham talks about writing as a tool for thinking, and I couldn't agree more. Paul Graham is precisely the kind of geek with whom I'd enjoy a speculative, discovery-oriented conversation of the kind I have with my geek friends. Persuade XOR Discover
Why does cultural background matter? Because a set of basic concepts and dogmas is required for two people to understand each other's ideas. My dogmas are rather positivistic, and include: "mathematics never lies", "there is no problem that humans can solve and computers inherently can't", "informal reasoning can always be formalized (digitized+parsed) losslessly, with the right knowledge representations". Scientists, and AI folks in particular, will usually share these.
I'm just beginning to talk to biologists, and it is... effortful. Although books like William Cohen's "A Computer Scientist's Guide to Cell Biology" help bridge this gap.
Knowledge of popular culture seems to be very important among geeks in North America. I haven't seen people enthusiastically spout movie quotes anywhere else. Europeans, for example, have to deal with a Tower of Babel among themselves, and generally don't seem to expect anyone to have read the same books. It's just not a thing they do there.
Another lazy man's view of like-minded intellectual friends is that they infect you with their best memes, already filtered and interpreted and critiqued into your conceptual system, so you don't have to. Also, they probably have (or have had) some of the same questions as you, and made some progress (or solved them), so you can share notes.
1 - if you're sufficiently detached and flexible of mind, you can always have the argument with yourself, by switching sides, but this comes with a certain overhead. As an example of this, Paul Graham talks about writing as a tool for thinking, and I couldn't agree more. Paul Graham is precisely the kind of geek with whom I'd enjoy a speculative, discovery-oriented conversation of the kind I have with my geek friends. Persuade XOR Discover